Shalena D.I.V.A.- Unleash the D.I.V.A. Within

Colors of a Butterfly by Lisa A. Gore

I was born and named, but I wasn’t supposed to make it. I was loved and claimed, but still, I wasn’t supposed to make it. I was born In West Philadelphia to a seventeen -year -old girl who had epilepsy, and a father who had a drug, and alcohol addiction. My mother only lived eight months after I was born. I never knew her, nor could I remember seeing her face. Yet, I found myself crying for her many nights. This void in my life was supposed to destroy me, and I wasn’t supposed to make it.  It was March ...

Just What the World Needs… Another Baby Who Can Read by T. Wright

When I was first inundated with commercials posters, videos, and talk shows promoting these programs promising to teach babies to read, I hoped, no I prayed, that this was just a passing fad like leg warmers or sea monkeys. The videos of little babies reading flashcards annoy me to no end. I know, I know...I proclaim to be an advocate of early literacy. So why am I so agitated by these baby reading programs? OK, here's the deal: I just think babies have more important stuff to learn. Exposing children to language and literacy in meaningful and relevant ways is what ...

Raising a Man by ShalenaD.I.V.A

Last night, I wanted something quick to eat so I decided to dine at Applebee’s with my nineteen-month-old son. It was our first date. I’m always trying to teach my son life lessons and I thought going on a date with him last night was a good time to teach him how to treat a woman. I know the idea of going out on a date with your child may seem strange, but as a mother, I think times like these are perfect opportunities to teach our sons how to treat women. Lately, I’ve been hearing radio personalities like Michael ...

Finding Mr. Right the Godly Way by Elaine Broaster-White

Growing up as a little girl I never really dreamed of being married. I mean I thought about it when I watched movies like Cinderella. However, I wasn’t fixated on it. As I grew and matured it was only then that I desired to be married. I had two children by the time I was 23-years-old. Things didn’t work out with their fathers. It’s funny even while dating these two men I didn’t think of being married. After things didn’t work out with neither of them I found myself in a couple different relationships. For 9 years I was single, ...

“Help! I’ll Never Get into College with These SAT Scores!” by Bernard A. Williams

Top 10 Suggestions for Juniors with Lower Than Expected SAT Scores If you are concerned that your SAT scores are lower than you expected or hoped, don’t worry and don’t give up – you still may be able to get into the college of your dreams.  Here are the top 10 things you can do now to improve your odds of getting into the college that is ideal for you:  Don’t send these scores to colleges.  If you are concerned that your performance across all three sections on the SAT was poor, consider keeping those scores to yourself.  The College Board has ...

Getting Hurt by Church Folk by Elaine Broaster-White

I sat on the other end of the phone in pure amazement. Disbelief, hurt, and anger flooded my thoughts. I could not believe what I was hearing, more importantly I could not believe who it was coming from. I loved this person not only because she was my family member, but because she was my spiritual mother. She was the same person that encouraged and spoke life into me during discouraging times in my life'; yet, she was the same person killing my spirit at that moment. It was a Friday evening, my church was having a revival and I ...

Ask Dr. Swiner- Updates on Birth Control

In a recent “Ask Dr. Swiner” segment that I do on my Facebook page, I had a number of interesting questions about what’s new in birth control. I deal with this issue frequently in my practice, and even I have to make sure I’m up to date with the information that comes out.  The Good Ole’ Pill For years, we’ve had birth control pills of many types. Most pills come in a variety of levels of estrogen and progesterone that balance one another and allow a woman to have monthly, regular menstrual cycle. Some pills, if taken without the placebo pill (the ...

If He Hit You Once… by ShalenaD.I.V.A

“I told you that I don’t celebrate Christmas,” he growled, getting up from the bed and storming towards the bathroom. “We don’t have to celebrate Christmas per se… we can simply go out to dinner,” I whined, sensing that I was on the losing side of this argument. “Going to dinner on Christmas day,” he shouted from the bathroom, “is celebrating Christmas in my eyes and I told you that I don’t celebrate Christmas. Get it through your thick skull!” I let out a heavy sigh to keep from crying. It was Christmas of 2003. I was never a big Christmas person ...

Now I Lay Me Down to Sleep…

 As I sit here listening to music my mind takes me on a journey, one that I try to forget. I am eight years old and living in Indiana again. Instead of basking in memories of playing hop scotch, double dutch, red light- green light, and my favorite; hide and seek, I remember going to places where I was supposed to feel safe like a family member's house or overnight church shut-ins and being molested by people I trusted. Before drifting off to sleep, I'd always pray that I wouldn't wake up to my cousins threatening me if I didn't ...

Living with Lupus: Part 1

Putting one foot in front of the other seems to be getting harder and harder each day. I stretch to ease the pain that is etched into my joints, but it gives no release. I look in the mirror and I can see the rings under my eyes. I quickly grab the concealer and cover them up so my children won’t see.  "Mommie, the bus is here!” yelled my 8 year-old daughter. "O.k baby, have a great day and Mommie loves you" I yell as a sharp pain hits me in the top of my head. "Cierra, walk  your sister to the bus. I am ...

Fly, Girl! by Nicole Stith-Evans

I was perusing my facebook page the other day when I came across a post from my Pastor Kirbyjon Caldwell. It said: “Every now and then you should do inventory of the people in your inner circle. Are they lifting you up or pulling you down? It's time to cut the dead weight and rise to the level God wants you to be. You are too blessed not to have blessed people in your life.” I thought about this because it really rang true in my heart. We are the people we associate with. I had to look back over my ...

I Almost Gave Away My Baby by Kelli Anderson

On August 22, 2007, I signed away my parental rights. On August 29, 2007, I was running desperately through Durham Regional Hospital trying to get them back.   A lot can happen in a week.  In order for me to totally explain the situation I found myself in when I realized that I was pregnant, I must give you a little background information. Although I was in denial for some time, I can now admit that I was depressed and that my depression stemmed from a failed relationship with a long-term boyfriend. We started dating in high school and continued to be an ...

Positive Sister: Tunya Griffin

Some may know Tunya Griffin as an astute bible teacher and orator. She has a distinct ability to transcend tradition in her delivery of the gospel through widening spiritual parameters in order to reach diverse people from various cultures, denominations, and backgrounds.  She is one of four children born to Frank Griffin, Sr. and Alexzina Griffin. Tunya Griffin was raised along side a diverse array of siblings: Frank Jr., Sonya, and Antoinette.  She was born and raised in Rochester, NY. When she meets people they often ask her, “How did you grow up?” She always responds that “I grew up like the Huxtables. Really, I ...

Newman Network owned by Nicole Newman

Nicole Newman is an inspiring motivational writer, public speaker and business networker. She was born in Washington, DC and grew up in the City of Brotherly Love, Philadelphia. A product of Julia R. Reynolds Masterman School and the Carver High School of Engineering and Science, she was gifted enough to acquire a strong work ethic. Though an altercation in 1989 left her with stab wounds to the face, neck and right arm she was honored with the most improved student award upon graduation. She started her college career at the University of North Carolina at Greensboro. In her second year, ...

Honoring Your Space by Tiffany McKinnon-Russell

As is the custom at the beginning of each year, people set out to establish new and sustainable resolutions to implement in their daily lives, but all too often they end up with a list of unrealistic expectations and a guilt-trip that follows them into the next year. I have found myself in that very place one too many times over the years, until I decided that enough was enough.  What good was a list that I knew deep down inside I had no chance of accomplishing?  What was the purpose of the goals I was setting, and what benefit would ...

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Ring of Hope

Dear Shalena D.I.V.A., In September of 2008 I met the greatest man that I could ever meet in my life. Karlton is loving, caring, giving and a great role model for my son. And the man is fine as I don’t know what! He is 6 feet tall with dark chocolate skin, a buff body, a bald head, and a winning smile. He dresses so sexy, yet conservative usually wearing a pair of jeans with a nice crisp button up polo with extra shiny shoes. He gets the shiny shoes from being in the Army where we both serve. He’s 34 years old ...

A Woman on the Verge Part 2 by Devon Greene

 “Hitched”             “Are you really going to wear that?” I asked overlooking Troy’s gray tee shirt and navy blue hooded sweatshirt. He wore his blue jeans went un-cuffed overtop his crisp tan Timberland boots.             Troy threw his hands up in the air and then said, “What else am I supposed to wear?”             I looked over at him as he sat on the edge of the bed. Behind him lay the black cocktail dress and sling back heels I brought for what was supposed to be the happiest day of my life.             “I knew this was a bad idea,” I said plopping ...

Natalie Wants to Win a Dress!

SHALENA D.I.V.A. "The Purpose-Driven D.I.V.A." Presents "100 DRESSES" Let's Bring Classy Back!   My name is Natalie. I think I should win the dress because I rarely treat myself lately. I'm always shopping for others. Even when I say,"I'm going buy me something", I always come out the store with something for my nieces, nephews or my mom. So I think winning a dress would be nice. This could be my reward! Please VOTE for me by pressing the star rating at the bottom of this post! Every vote counts so please vote for me. I REALLY want to win a dress. Natalie has a chance to win a dress like this:  Would YOU like to win a ...

Jonnie Wants to Win a Dress!

SHALENA D.I.V.A. "The Purpose-Driven D.I.V.A." Presents "100 DRESSES" Let's Bring Classy Back!   My name is Jonnie. I am so glad to be able to submit a chance to win one of those very Sexy & stylish Dresses.  My reason for entering is simple to me.  I have been gaining weight since my injury in 2006, and I lost the ability I thought to be able to do any real exercise that would help me in my plight to regain outer confidence!..My self esteem is high; at least in the public's eye, but only God and myself know the real deal!!    I recently a conversation with a friend, that turned out ...

Boosting Your Child’s Self Esteem

Boosting Your Child’s Self Esteem by Dr. Harold Frye, HSLT Child Psychologist A line from a popular poem titled Children Live What They Learn reads, “If a child lives with encouragement, he learns confidence.” For parents, that means setting the stage for self-esteem. How early should you start? Child behavior experts suggest that parents can start giving children a sense of self-value while they are infants. For example, when babies demonstrate a milestone, such as rolling over on the bed, parents should give them an encouraging smile or even a bit of good-natured baby talk. For the toddler who is taking baby steps, make sure ...

Mirror, Mirror… by Cammela Teel, PHR

Congratulations! You finally landed that interview and you’re going through your interview prep list:  Resume?  Check!  References?  Check!  List of intelligent questions to ask the interviewer? Check!  Mirror? Check!   A mirror?!  That’s right, a mirror.   When you meet someone for the first time, they will form their impression of you within a matter of seconds.  This holds true even during an interview, so you want to be sure that what’s reflected in the mirror will help, not hurt your chances of making a great first impression.   Not convinced? Soon after I was hired at one organization, my (then) new co-worker and I were reminiscing about the day ...

Yagolicious Cosmetics Owned by Yago Mo’Nique

Yago Mo’Nique formerly hosted the "The Hot Spot", while attending Parkview Science and Arts Magnet High School in Little Rock, Arkansas. Her first two interviews for the Music Video Show were former Bad Boy recording Artists 112 and Pop/ R&B legend Janet Jackson. From there Yago continued to pursue a career in television while attending the Illinois Institute of Art. While there she hosted the weekly Chicagoan music variety show ATTACK OF THE BOOGIE. Yago then decided to make a move to New York: her next big career decision. Yago would go on to become a journalist for ZYNC TV, a ...

An Emotional Affair or What…

Dear Shalena D.I.V.A., I am a 55 year young woman whose body started changing at age 49. By 51, my sex drive went down and now I have none. I thought my husband of over ten years was very understanding, but now he constantly asks me when are we going to make love again. I told him that I am not the same inside anymore. For as long as I can remember, he told me there is no woman on this Earth as beautiful as me. But just a few weeks ago he was talking with his son about the women ...

DZS Event Planning owned by Stephanie A. Watson

Stephanie A. Watson, is a native Detroiter and the President & Creative Director of DZS Savvy Event Planning & Design & Consulting Company established in 1996. And most recently Co-Owner of Best Practices Training & Development LLC, A Tea Parties With Style, A Diva & A Camera & Rep That Model. Ms. Watson has developed a plethora of affiliate businesses of DZS over the past 14+ years in business; inclusive of but not limited to: The Workshop Suite | D3P:: DZS Promo | PR | Publicity + Marketing; an event planner, entrepreneur and business consulting, training, advising, promotions and marketing ...

Stressed Parents Equal Stressed Kids by Dr. Tracey Marks

Have you ever wondered how your demeanor and behavior can affect your child? Check out Dr. Tracey Marks' video on how your stress levels can have an impact on your kids. Be blessed and be sure to check Dr. Marks out at www.beyondtheburnout.com! ! Related posts:Dating a Man with Kids by ShalenaD.I.V.A Ladies, imagine this. You meet the man of your dreams.... Related posts brought to you by Yet Another Related Posts Plugin.

The Dreams You Dare to Dream by Shalena D.I.V.A

Have you ever had a dream or a vision that you once believed in, but after while you let it go? Life happened. Your situation changed and those big ideas and lofty dreams you once flirted with throughout the day got lost somewhere in between working, being a parent, and bills. Those ideas flash in your mind every now and then, but you swat them away like pesky flies on a hot summer day. I used to treat my dreams and ideas like this. I’d even ridicule myself for even believing in them once upon a time. I went on ...

The Greatest Love of All by Felicia Konan

Dear God, I’ve never done this before, you know, write you a letter to tell you how I feel about you and what you’ve done in my life. You’ve seen me go through so much and I never really took the time to reflect on how far I’ve come. Although I know that you know everything about me, I figured I’d finally give my existence a voice. Here it goes… It has been seven years since my son was born! He was born severely premature only weighing 1lb and 7 oz!! "Is he alive, does he have fingers, can he breath?" I ...

Nurse: Kia Harris

I was born and raised in the inner city of Philadelphia. I am thankful for a mother that had the insight and vision to know that she had to get me out of the "hood". I am a graduate of Masterman Middle and High School. I received a great education there and credit the foundation of my success to my mother and the faculty there. I love reading, on average I read about two books a week. I love to learn about different cultures and reading various styles of writing. I read a lot of medical journals because I am ...

Tanesia Butterfield Wants to Win a Dress!

  SHALENA D.I.V.A. "The Purpose-Driven D.I.V.A." Presents "100 DRESSES" Let's Bring Classy Back!   My name is Tanesia Butterfield. I want to win a dress because I am a hardworking mama! I support my family while my husband plays stay at home daddy. I get the bills paid (barely) but after working my booty off 5 days a week for my family there's never enough "me" money. I'm still wearing clothes every day that are 2 sizes too big because I just don't have enough to ever get some that fit. A new dress would make me one happy mama!   Please VOTE for me by pressing the star rating at the ...

Three Tips from 50 Cent by Shay Olivarria

Shay Olivarria is a motivational speaker, financial literacy coach, former foster care youth, and author of Money Matters: The Get It Done In 1 Minute Workbook. As an ambassador for financial freedom, Shay travels all over the country to educate people on responsible financial decisions. No related posts. Related posts brought to you by Yet Another Related Posts Plugin.

Distant Lovers by Kimberly Holmes

Sometimes we all need a little reminder that God truly does have a plan for our lives. The last few months of mine are proof enough for me. To say the least, the last eight years of my life have been tough. You wouldn't think that to look at my biography on my station's website. I'm an anchor and reporter for a television news station in Cincinnati. I grew up in Saudi Arabia, graduated from Duke University with an undergraduate degree, and then obtained my masters degree from Columbia University. Don't get me wrong. Life is good, ...

Save our Men by Cheryl Tyler

Let’s find out what health issues are killing our brothers, and take some drastic measures to help extend their lives! I know this is a blog for women, and 99.9% of what’s written and shared here is by women and for women, but, as women, aren’t we responsible, at least to a major extent, for ensuring the nutrition, health, fitness, and longevity of the men in our lives?  Think about it.  As they pursue their increasingly difficult tasks at what constitutes manhood, fatherhood, and brotherhood, our supporting role as matriarchs is to ensure the survivability of our male species.  Are we ...

Levea Wants to Win a Dress!

SHALENA D.I.V.A. "The Purpose-Driven D.I.V.A." Presents "100 DRESSES" Let's Bring Classy Back!    My name is Levea.   I would love to win a dress. I am only 22 and I weigh in at 235 pounds. I am constantly looking for dresses, but I can never find one that fits right. If its not riding up or to tight, it hides my curves.  All I believe is that their is a dress out there for me and I hope that the one that you are giving away would be the right one for me. Thank you in advance for your votes and I hope to be one of the winners. Please VOTE for me ...

A Woman on the Verge Part 4 by Devon Greene

Let the Drama Begin…   It was early Friday evening. Troy was due to meet me at the house at any minute. I lay sprawled across the couch with the same clothes I had on the last time he saw me. I hadn’t seen or heard from Troy for over three days. In those three days, all I did was lie around with the window curtains drawn and the telephone off the hook. I couldn’t dare tell anyone about my newfound situation; it was just too humiliating. The television remained on the weather channel with the sound muted the entire time and ...

Invest in Yourself to Increase Your Worth

What is your most valuable asset?  I recently organized a panel on personal finance and one of my fellow panelists asked this important question.  The audience stared at him blankly.  No one wanted to answer the question!  Well, I won't keep you in suspense.  It's you.  You are your most valuable asset.  And when it comes to money management, you need to invest in yourself and protect yourself just as you would invest in stocks and insure your home.  When you sit down to consider your financial situation think about whether you are cultivating your human capital. Human capital is the ...

More Than a Conqueror by Kelly Egan

MORE THAN A CONQUEROR…..   by Kelly Egan I am better than a life of abuse.  I am wiser than I was when I lived as a victim of that abuse.  I am stronger, because I not only endured, but survived the abuse. I am loved by my Creator and I am thankful he pulled me out of an abusive cycle.             ….Therefore; I shall never forget where I came from……   My heart is not proud because I cannot direct my own path.  I am better when I am weak, for then I must rely on my Father’s strength. Tears are an external verification of a humble, ...

Nursing Student: Shanella Burton

I’m thirty seven years old. I grew up in Southwest Philadelphia, and currently reside in Northeast Philadelphia. I’m recently divorced with two daughters. After separating from my husband I decided to pursue my dream to become a nurse. My biggest obstacle was worrying about how I was going to work seven days a week, find time to study and do homework, balance my family and still have somewhat of a social life. Through the grace of God I was able to overcome all of these obstacles. My daughters and I enjoy time together and they don’t feel that I’m neglecting ...

Will He ever stop Grieving?

Hello ShalenaD.I.V.A, I recently got involved with a man whose wife committed suicide two years ago. He has his good days along with the bad days, but all in all he's still grieving. He was awakened the other morning by a horrible dream in which he relived the funeral scenario all over again. This caused him to become very emotional, and break down and cry. I didn't know what to say except that everything is going to be okay. After our conversation I immediately began praying for him. However, I found myself needing to reach out to talk to someone. I ...

The High School Years by Anya Nicole

Last Wednesday I attended career day at Overbrook High School, my Alma Mater. At first, I thought of a whole bunch of reasons not to go, one reason being that my high school years sucked and I absolutely hated that school.  After much thought, I put my own insecurities aside and decided that giving back to the young people was way more important than the bad experiences I had as a student. When I stepped inside those walls after twelve years, I was overwhelmed with so much emotion. This was the place that it all started; my dreams and my ambitions ...

Freedom from the Curse by Kelly Egan

I STOOD ON YOUR WORD AND WATCHED IT COME TO PAST… SUFFERING IS ONLY TEMPORARY AND THE PAIN IT TOO SHALL PASS. I’M ROOTED AND GROUNDED IN A LOVE THAT WILL NOT FAIL, I’M LEANING ON A ROCK WHERE RIVERS BREAK AND TRAIL.   WASHED IN THE FLOOD ARE MY SORROWS AND SHAME, SUNSHINE IS BREAKING AND HEALING COMES TO REPLACE PAIN. I’M NOT MY OWN, AND FOR THAT I AM GLAD…. HOW DEEP ARE THE WOUNDS OF A SOUL THAT IS MAD.   I’M RELEASING MY ANGER AND I HAND IT TO YOU. REPLACE IT WITH PEACE, AND THROW IN SOME GRACE TOO… LORD, I CANNOT, BUT ONLY WITH YOU, LET ...

Shelly Wants to Win a Dress!

SHALENA D.I.V.A. "The Purpose-Driven D.I.V.A." Presents "100 DRESSES" Let's Bring Classy Back!   My name is Shelly. I would like to win a dress because I recently noticed I had stopped wearing them. Then I checked my closet and saw I had stopped buying them. At some point in my life I just stopped feeling the need to dress up and preferred jeans and t shirts to dresses. Recently I just met someone after a long time of not dating and I would like to win a new dress to bring some sexy back into my life! he deserves it and so do I! Please VOTE for me by pressing the star rating at the bottom ...

Ebbies Hair & Nail Salon, Inc owned by Ebony Fletcher

Ebony Fletcher was an only child raised in Canarie Brooklyn, NY by her great-grandmother. Being raised by a minister, she was taught values, morals, respect for others and herself. Her grandmother taught her to never lose her faith in God! Growing up in Brooklyn’s projects was not always easy. She had to focus on greater things in life not just what she saw everyday in her neighborhood. Ebony has been through tremendous tragedies in her life; almost being murdered by her ex boyfriend and  the passing of her friend, protector and guardian: her grandmother. Through the years she found ways ...

Lord, I’m a Fool! by Shalena D.I.V.A.

On a wintry Christmas Eve, a young mother told her three small boys to kneel around her bed and pray. Continuing a tradition that her mother had started with her and her siblings, the young mother kissed each child and told them to bow their heads and to close their eyes as she led them into a short prayer. “Lord, thank you for my family and for allowing us to see another Christmas,” she began before breaking down into heavy sobs. The two oldest boys huddled around their mother and hugged her as she continued to weep uncontrolably. After what seemed like an ...

To Remarry or not to Remarry

Dear Shalena D.I.V.A., I am a middle aged woman who has been married once, got divorced, but have never remarried. My ex-husband is originally from Ghana and we met over thirty years ago in college. I quickly fell in love with him because he was kind, respectable, and genuinely cared for me. Our marriage was going smoothly until his relatives from Ghana visited us. I could tell right away that these women did not care for me. I would hear them whispering amongst each other whenever I would walk past them. They didn’t even eat the food I prepared for them—what a ...

A Woman on the Verge Part 3 by Devon Greene

A Family of Lies When Troy arrived back at the house I met him at the front door. I stood with my arms folded. My stomach churned as he walked past me and took a seat on the couch. The house was dead silent. The only noises that could be heard were the soft sounds of us breathing. “Who the hell is Shanice?” I asked pacing back and forth in front of him. He took a deep breath and then said, “I never meant to hurt you Devon. It was a stupid mistake and I didn’t know how to tell you.” His eyes ...

The Lonely Widow by Michelle Banks

Dear God, it's me Michelle. I wish I was a little girl asking you when will my pimples clear up or if the boy in 5th period likes me. But God I'm a grown woman who's been saved and serving you for years. I’m an accomplished woman whom you have abundantly blessed. As the elder saints would say, you've brought me from a mighty long way. But God, I am also a widow at thirty-six who's still asking why did you take my husband away. Lord, I know all of the scriptures, " to be absent from the body is ...

HIV/AIDS and The Church by Elaine Broaster-White

Did you know that an estimated one million people are living with HIV in the United States? Did you know that HIV/AIDS is often referred to as the “disease of young people” with half of the 5 million new infections each year occurring among people ages 15 to 24? Did you know that woman and people of color account for more than 50% of the existing 40 million HIV/AIDS cases to date? If we were to take polls in the African American churches around the world about HIV/AIDS, my belief is that we would fail miserably regarding the facts and statistics. ...

The Long Walk Home by Nicole Stith-Evans

“Slut, I told you not to go anywhere,” he yelled, slamming his fist against my right eye. “Where did you get any money to go to the store with anyway?” he continued as the words stung just as deep as his first blow. Ashamed, I looked around hoping there was no one outside to see my assault. I had grown accustomed to being verbally and physically abused behind closed doors, but being humiliated out in public was a first. Thankfully no one was outside to witness my shame or to help me. I dashed into the house before he could land ...

The Power of a Mom’s Voice by Dr. Tracey Marks

Have you ever thought about the effect your voice has upon your children's lives? Check out Dr. Tracey Marks' video about the importance of a mother's voice. Enjoy! No related posts. Related posts brought to you by Yet Another Related Posts Plugin.

31 by Brittany Botts

I saw the lord for the first time in a long time Maybe it was a long time Cuz I kept telling myself it was the wrong time No lie, I knew that if I Died that night I wouldn’t see the sky So why should I Waste His time? I wasn’t ready to change my life of sin I wasn’t ready to make the right decisions Cuz the sex was good and I liked it The feeling was strong I couldn’t fight it Yet I feel so alone when the night ends Just me, myself, and I no one guidind My life too dark to see the light and My body and soul continue ...

Surviving The Aftermath by Mikenda Early

As I sit here in the silent night I can't help but think about all my family and I have went through since July 22,2010, the day someone tried to kill my 17-year-old son while he was hanging out at a friend's house. By God's grace he is still here with us. But I am constantly reminded of how I felt the night I received that call and how I received so many calls of prayers and concern. Hmmm, it kind of reminded me of when a loved one passes away and everybody you know or used to know calls and ...

Nursing Student: Mikenda Early

I grew up in multiple cities. My step dad was in the United States Army so we moved alot. My favorite activity is reading, writing, singing and hanging with my family and friends. One of the greatest obstacles is being diagnosed with a brain tumor. After brain surgery and radiation and prayer I have been doing great I then decided that now was the time to go after my dream. Is there a quote that you live by? Please tell us why. One of my favorite of all times are If God brought you to it he will bring you through ...

A Woman on the Verge Part 1 by Devon Greene

Prologue “Jaya, are you sure you want to do this?” my soon to be mother-in-law, Ms. Glenda asked folding her hands in front of her on the kitchen table. I leaned forward in my chair, tilting my head slightly and asked, “Do what?” Ms. Glenda’s eyes narrowed as she leaned in closer. “Get married.” “Of course I’m sure,” I smiled. “I’ve never been more sure.” “Why don’t you and Troy wait a while? You two have all the time in the world to get married,” Glenda said, twiddling her thumbs. “Well we don’t have all the time in the world to get a refund on these ...

When Mama’s A Lesbian by Kesha Lane

The first time I realized my family was different, I was about five years old. It was a beautiful summer day. My grandmother was in the kitchen rinsing fat, red strawberries. I watched as she used a paring knife to snip the green tops from the berries before slicing each one into eighths. The berries leaked their pale pink juice on the bottom of the bowl she had tossed them in. As my grandmother sprinkled white sugar onto the fruit, she asked me to go and see if my mother wanted some strawberries and shortcake. With a big grin on ...

Handling a Crisis with a Crisis Budget by Kim Allman

Is your job secure?  Recent unemployment numbers indicate that the job market is still rocky.  Many of us are still at risk of either losing our jobs or being unable to find a new job.  Take a moment to think about your situation:  Do you consider your job to be “recession proof”?  Or maybe you think it’s just a matter of time before they have you in that big conference room, discussing your severance package and ushering you out the door. We are all susceptible to a sudden change in job status or income level and we should all know how this change ...

Mahogany Nights by ShalenaD.I.V.A

I was inspired to write this article after listening to Diana Ross’ hit theme song from the movie “Mahogany.” In the song, Diana asks; “Do you know where you’re going to? Do you like the things that life is showing you? Where are you going to, do you know?” Unfortunately, many women do not know where they are going nor where they are headed. Sadly, most women spend too much time focusing upon and caring for everyone else and often forget to care for themselves. Self neglect may not be intentional, but it’s detrimental to a woman’s physical and mental ...

A FEW GOOD MEN: RON THOMAS

Ronald Thomas currently resides in Raleigh, North Carolina. He graduated from North Carolina Central University and has 2 Bachelor of Science Degrees in Biology and Enviornmental Science. He is 6'3" and 29 years old. He used to be President of MD Medical Group and Carolina Eye Care Center, but was led into the entertainment industry and is now the CEO of Dolce Group, Se7en http://www.7-nc.com, and Private Media Group-www.privatenc.com. Ron enjoys playing basketball, shopping, and traveling to extraordinary places. We interviewed Ron for our "A Few Good Men" edition and here are his answers on life and relationships. Are you spiritual? ...

Raquel Wants to Win a Dress!

SHALENA D.I.V.A. "The Purpose-Driven D.I.V.A." Presents "100 DRESSES" Let's Bring Classy Back!    My name is Raquel... thank u so much for allowing me the opportunity to try to win a dress.... one of the reasons I'd like to be choosen for a dress...is that I have one and it doesn't fit me anymore...... also the last time I wore a dress was a month after the death of my father...... it was a bittersweet moment... although I looked great, I was hurting deep inside from the loss of my daddy......I want to feel beautiful!! I want to feel like a woman again=)... thank u so much=) Raquel Please VOTE for me by ...

Losing the Weight by ShalenaD.I.V.A

Back in February of this year, I cried out to God and asked Him to help me lose weight. My son was a little over a year old and I had been struggling to lose the weight I gained before and during my pregnancy. I was tired of sneaking past mirrors because I was to afraid to deal with the fact that I hated how I looked. I got tired of my clothes fitting too snug and not being able to wear anything cute because I couldn’t fit into them. I realized I had to make a major change after ...

FLOWERGIRL by ShalenaD.I.V.A

I remember arguing with an ex-boyfriend about how he was treating me. After trying to express myself in ways that conveyed how I truly felt, I got so frustrated because it seemed like everything I said kept falling on deaf ears. Finally, with tears in my eyes, I yelled, “I’m like a flower and you keep plucking off my petals!” He looked at me for a second and said, “That is the dumbest thing I ever heard you say…and you got a degree from Duke. You need to give it back!” I was crushed and cringed as he said this through ...

STRONGER THAN THE PAIN by Kelly Egan

Backstory:As the battle continued to break the chains of the demons of abuse and control, the final straw came after I was raped one evening. My children were with a sitter and my mother arrived and took them into her care. She informed me I had no visitation or anything until a hearing came due. Authorities had thrown me into a solitary confinement cell awaiting my statement so juvenile was contacted regarding my children. Three days after my rape, my mother had obtained guardianship of my children with no notice of hearings or anything served to me. I was devastated ...

What is Your (Money) Personality? by Kim Allman

Money causes people a lot of grief.  Chances are it has kept you up some nights.  But does it really need to be this hard?  Does money management need to be so painful to think about, talk about and deal with? Placing yourself in a comfortable and happy money place is not easy, but it’s no different than our desire to do the right thing in other areas of our lives: floss, eat right, exercise, get enough sleep and what ever else Dr. Oz is telling us to do this week.  We are all striving to live a balanced, healthy life ...

Tiffany Wants to Win a Dress!

SHALENA D.I.V.A. "The Purpose-Driven D.I.V.A." Presents "100 DRESSES" Let's Bring Classy Back!      My name is Tiffany. I should win a dress because I inspire others to embrace who they are naturally. I love rocking who I am naturally :) Please VOTE for me by pressing the star rating at the bottom of this post! Every vote counts so please vote for me. I REALLY want to win a dress.   Tiffany has a chance to win a dress like this:  Would YOU like to win a dress like this, too? What you've seen is only a sample of the kinds of dresses you can win! It doesn't matter how big or small you are! It doesn't ...

Lending With Your Heart and Your Head by Kim Allman

I’m a big advocate of giving back and sharing wealth.  I know that my successes in life have come in large part due to the help of people around me.  So I give my time and my money to community projects that I believe will improve the lives of others.  I’m sure many of you feel the same.  And thanks to websites like www.charitynavigator.org and www.guidestar.org, we are able to evaluate the legitimacy and effectiveness of charitable organizations before we write our checks.  But what do you do when it’s not charity that is requesting financial assistance.  What do you do ...

Coming out of Hiding by Samantha Murray

I am thirty-one-years-old and I have been depressed for at least 14 years or more. I have struggled with insecurities, low self esteem, perfectionism, fear, and anger all of my life.  A therapist once described my family life as a “toxic cesspool” and concluded that my depression is really like post traumatic stress disorder.           In 1997, I decided to run away during my freshman year at Duke.  I told my Resident Advisor that I couldn’t handle life anymore and then promptly walked out the front door of my dorm.  I returned an hour later, having never made it off of East Campus.  ...

So you wanna be a Nurse… by ShalenaD.I.V.A.

A conversation I had with a 14-year-old girl in the hair salon in early April of 2010 finally convinced me that I needed to create www.shalenadiva.com, an online resource for women that addresses issues such as self esteem, education, career, relationships and so many other issues that are openly discussed on the website. Prior to my encounter with the young lady, I was still unsure about launching the website because I didn’t think people would be receptive to it. But as I spoke to the young lady, I felt God tugging on my heart and admonishing me to carry out ...

Does God Care if You’re Fit?

"I have been bought with a price and I belong to God. Do you not know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit, who is in you, whom you have received from God? You are not your own; you were bought at a price. Therefore honor God with your body. "~ 1 Corinthians 6:19-20. When I ask myself if God cares if I’m fit, this verse makes me think that maybe He does. I was in a downward spiral; becoming a fat, sloppy shadow of the person I once was.  I had spent my entire life tiptoeing on eggshells ...

Avoiding Scams By Kim Allman

When you need assistance, where do you go for help?  Do you call up a family member?  Do you call a friend?  Do you google your issue?  Do you look for professional help?  There are a lot of places to seek assistance for a problem, especially a financial problem.  People are happy to offer their opinion and people in crisis are often too eager to listen to anyone who steps forward and promises a solution.  But not all of these people are honest or knowledgeable.  Whether it’s a person who is intentionally misleading you for their gain or a person ...

Maybe Next Lifetime by Kai James

I knew him way back when. We were young and he was one of the most handsome men I’d ever met in my 22 years.  His Hershey chocolate skin enticed me and his New York accent engulfed me like a warm blanket on a cold November day. The scent of his cologne danced in my nostrils and remained there as a constant reminder of my feelings for him. Living in different cities never made it easy. We met mostly once or twice a month in my town and the departure always caused me to shed tears. Our friendship was always ...

Cries Throughout The Night!! by Mikenda Early

 Wednesday started out like every other day, my routine didn't change. After running the kids around , cooking dinner, and cleaning up before bed I got on my knees and prayed a prayer of covering over my family. I  prayed a little longer for my eldest son because like so many other nights he was out  with his  friends and decided to stay the night with them. After  numerous attempts at  trying to fall  asleep  I just layed there and began to talk to God. Apparently I fell asleep because  my phone was blaring in my ear and I saw that I had ...

Who’s Watching the Baby? Part 1 by Angel McNair

The summer of 1998 was crazy. My son’s father got locked up for selling drugs and I got evicted from my apartment after he shot at a neighbor. All of this happened right after the birth of my son, David. For 2 months I had to stay with my god-sister until my new apartment was ready. Once I moved into my own place I felt a great sense of relief. I appreciated my god-sister letting me stay with her, but you know there ain’t nothing like having your own. Two months after I moved into my apartment, I met a ...

Sovereignty KO Collections, LLC owned by Karyn Okelo

Karyn Taylor Okelo grew up in Oakland, California graduating from Cal State University Hayward with a Baccalaureate of Science degree in Biology and a minor in Chemistry. She worked in commercial risk management in the biotech industry, then decided to change careers and pursue her dreams of becoming a footwear designer.  She attended the Fashion Institute of Design and Merchandising in Los Angeles, then studied footwear design, technology and manufacturing at the Leicester International College of Footwear Design in England. She now lives and works in Baltimore Maryland, where she also completed her MBA at the University of Baltimore. We ...

Bigger Than Your Block owned by Shay Olivarria

Shay Olivarria is a motivational speaker, financial literacy coach, former foster care youth and author of 10 Things College Students Need to Know About Money and Money Matters: The Get It Done in 1 Minute Workbook. As an ambassador for financial freedom, Shay travels all over the country to educate people on responsible financial decisions. Shay’s passion for motivational coaching was ignited seven years ago when she began outreach efforts for the San Diego Community College District. She advised students on the college process and has continued to reach out to youth on a number of levels. Shay is dedicated ...

Amber Wants to Win a Dress!

SHALENA D.I.V.A. "The Purpose-Driven D.I.V.A." Presents "100 DRESSES" Let's Bring Classy Back! My name is Amber and I am a  momma. I want to win a dress so I can feel like a HOT MOMMA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :) Please VOTE for me by pressing the star rating at the bottom of this post! Every vote counts so please vote for me. I REALLY want to win a dress.   Amber has a chance to win a dress like this:  Would YOU like to win a dress like this, too? What you've seen is only a sample of the kinds of dresses you can win! It doesn't matter how big or small you are! It doesn't matter ...

ChariT’s Inspirational Creations owned by Chari T. Hawkins

Chari T. Hawkins is a stay at home mom of twins with a passion for God and inspiring others!  She has always loved to help others from her young days of volunteering as a child. Her love for the arts including dancing, singing, and acting has branched out into a new God given talent; unique handmade inspirational jewelry! Through her blog http://charitsinspirationalcreations.blogspot.com/, and facebook page https://www.facebook.com/ChariTs.Inspirational.Creations, she share inspirational tips, quotes, and of course her love for making inspirational jewelry!  Chari aspires to jump back into her background of performing and speak to others are being motivated to live their passion! ...

Chasing Love or a Dream by T. Chanel

It started in high school. Chase and I were the best of friends. Sparks would fly when we were together and everyone around us could've felt it. Sometimes it seemed as if nothing could've come between us, no matter who we were with or what we were doing: playing basketball, playing cards, or hanging with the crew. There was always a connection. Although we were only fourteen at the time, what we had was serious. I felt like I really loved him and I’m not talking about puppy love either. It wasn't infatuation where I always wanted to be with him or ...

Testament or Ego Trip?

I love muscle.  My muscles.  I found them again in the past couple of years, beneath the layers of fast food dining, blended mochas, and emotional eating.  The first visible realization of my success came when I could see my triceps.  Sometimes I flex my arm and trace the cut of muscle with my fingers. And this year; after six months with a personal trainer, carb cycling, and four evenings a week in the weight room, my calves are crazy, my hamstrings and quads strong and sleek, my delts and back showing promise. And now that the cold rain has left ...

Sheila Fortson: The Glam Thrifter

[caption id="attachment_3175" align="alignleft" width="200" caption="“I’ve always wondered: “What’s the point in having a fabulous purse with no money in it?”"][/caption]  There’s an air about Sheila Fortson that everyone seems to love. She reminds you of your sister or best friend who smiles all the time, is there when you need her, and is always dressed like a fashionable diva. And what makes her unique is her uncanny ability to find those outfits you admire for less than you can imagine. This woman is absolutely "The Glam Thrifter". Sheila is a radio and TV personality who proves that no matter what your ...

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100 DRESSES CAMPAIGN

SHALENA D.I.V.A. "The Purpose-Driven D.I.V.A." Presents "100 DRESSES" Let's Bring Classy Back! Here's a sample of the kinds of dresses you can win! It doesn't matter how big or small you are! It doesn't matter where you live! You can win a dress and we'll send it to you. How to win a dress: Send a picture of yourself and  why you should win a dress to shalenadiva@shalenadiva.com. We will create a post for you to send to your family and friends so they can vote for you.  The woman who gets the most votes and comments for her entry on www.shalenadiva.com will be a winner for that week. There will be new ...

Think outside the Musicbox By ShalenaD.I.V.A

The Happy Hour Section of D.I.V.A Polish offers you suggestions on how to become more well-rounded so that you are able to represent yourself well around others. There's nothing worse than a woman who sounds stupid when she speaks...ugh! You have to broaden your horizons by exposing yourself to new things so you’ll have a killer conversation during happy hour, cocktail parties, or any other situation inwhich you may find yourself. This week, we’ll discuss the benefits of expanding your musical tastes. I pride myself on being able to talk to almost anyone on the planet (given an interpreter) because I'm ...

S.T. Ellis & Co. owned by Sharmina T. Ellis

Sharmina T. Ellis grew up in Germany as an Army Brat where she gained valuable experience dealing with a variety of Cultures, not just from being in a foreign country but from the people in my community with diverse and rich backgrounds. She speaks a little German now...enough to visit and get what she needs ((wink)). She attended Rutgers University in New Brunswick, NJ and majored in Psychology...People are her Passion! Her mentor is one of her best friends in the world, J. Latina Richardson. Latina was her supervisor when she worked as the head Pharmacy Technician for Rutgers Health ...

Nursing Student: Alisha Banks

My decision to become a nurse at first was a means to make more money. That still is one of my reasons but also because I have worked in the healthcare field as a Certified Nurse’s Assistant (CNA) for so many years, I feel it’s time to advance myself. Also, my grandmother was a huge supporter, as well as my other family members, of me going back to school and being even more successful in life. Nursing Students: What do you think will be your favorite part of the job? My favorite part of the job as a CNA is the ability ...

If You Only Knew by Elaine Broaster-White

Did you know that almost five children die every day as a result of child abuse? Did you know that child abuse occurs at every socioeconomic level, across ethnic and cultural lines, within all religions and at all levels of education? Did you know that children who experience child abuse & neglect are 59% more likely to be arrested as a juvenile, 28% more likely to be arrested as an adult, and 30% more likely to commit violent crime? I shared these statistics with you because I wanted to stress the fact that such environments produce stressed children. These types of ...

Shay Walker Photographics owned by Shay Walker

  [caption id="attachment_3046" align="alignleft" width="204" caption="Photo Credit: Mike Bradley"][/caption] Shay Walker is “nicety” (nice, yet feisty if necessary). This Philly girl is the baby of a blended family, almost like the Brady Bunch. She’s blessed to have come from a two-parent household which, she feels, made her the well-rounded, level-headed person she is. She’s  a fun-loving person who loves learning and doing new things. She grew up with lots of love (in fact “Love” is her legal middle name) from her parents and her siblings, all of whom are at least 15 years older than her. She’s always had a very vivid ...

My Child, What Have You Done…

Back in 1999 my life changed. I’ll never forget it. It was the week before Christmas. My Husband and I were watching the news about a young woman who went missing a few days before. Immediately, my husband and I started praying for her safe return. My heart went out to the young lady’s family because I have a daughter about the same age and I would be devastated if something happened to her. My heart was so heavy after watching that news report. It made me think of my daughter, Dede, and my grandson. I actually had two daughters, ...

WRIT…ING FOR “THE KING”

  WRIT…ING FOR "THE KING" BY KELLY D. EGAN   BREAKING…BLEEDING…LOVING…FIGHTING… FORGETTING…REMEMBERING…WINNING…LOSING… SCREAMING…FEARING…RUNNING…SOBBING REMINDING…BLINDING…SUFFOCATING...HIDING..                    NEEDING…SAVING…   SLEEPING…SPEEDING…DRINKING…DRUGGING… CLINGING…STARVING…DEBATING…WAITING… LAUGHING…HURTING…HATING…DROWNING… CRYING…TRYING…MOVING…STAYING… OWING…PAYING....BREATHING...DYING…                    RESTING…WAITING…   RIDING…DRIVING…STOPPING…CONTINUING… HANGING…STRAYING…STANDING…REMAINING… PRAISING…SINGING…DANCING…PLAYING… RELAPSING…REGRETTING…FALLING…LEANING… CURSING…BLESSING…GETTING….GIVING…                    DOUBTING….BELIEVING…   TIMING…COUNTING…LEARNING…TEACHING… SPEAKING…LISTENING…CONFUSING…THINKING… RISING…SINKING…BURYING…UNCONVERING… DESTROYING…BUILDING…PROTECTING…DEFENDING… GROWING…RELEASING…MATURING…CLIMBING…                    ASKING…RECEIVING…   ACHING…MISSING…NEEDING…RETURNING…. CALLING…BEGGING…PLEADING…EXPLAINING… SEARCHING…VISITING…LEAVING…ARRIVING… OPENING…CLOSING…HEALING…RECOVERING… CONFESSING…QUESTIONING…GRASPING…FEELING…                    SEEING…SMILING…   RENEWING…GAINING…TURNING…FACING… READING…ADMITTING…SEEKING…FINDING… CARING…ABIDING…HUMBLING…SHARING… DREAMING…REVEALING…LEADING…FOLLOWING…                     PROMISING…UPLIFTING…. …PRAISING…TRUSTING…THANKING…EXALTING…             BOWING….OBEYING…JESUS…MY KING…                                    EVERLASTING…AND ….REIGNING…         Related posts:STRONGER THAN THE PAIN by Kelly Egan Backstory:As the battle continued to break the chains of the... Keeping it Real Greeting Cards owned by Tanya Perry Tanya Perry grew up on the south side of Chicago,... Related posts brought to you by Yet Another Related Posts Plugin.

Tia Douglass: Baltimore Idol Winner 2010 by Kamah Scott

While speaking with the spunky Tia Douglass who is the winner of Baltimore Idol 2010 you will find her to be funny, humble, outspoken but over all, a talented singer hailing from Baltimore City Maryland. The petite songstress packs a huge punch when it comes to belting out melodies. She’s the type of artist that brings listeners to tears with her convicting and emotional vocals. When describing her vocal style and what she brings to her audience, Tia says “I’m an artist that gives her all and is very much into the song that I’m singing. The majority of the ...

Introducing… A Girl’s Best Friends by Shalena D.I.V.A.

Introducing...   A Girl's Best Friends: 5 Friends Every Successful Woman Needs in Her Life by Shalena D.I.V.A. Do you KNOW that you have greatness deep within you, but feel as if it’s trapped and you need help to unleash it? Are you’re tired of not living up to your potential and you're unhappy as a result? Do you feel lost and simply don’t have a clue which direction your life is headed?   If you answered "Yes" to these questions, then I have some great news!   Not only have I been where you are, but I’ve found a way to tap into my greatness, consistently achieve my goals, ...

Teenager in the Mirror by Mikenda Early

Do you remember going through puberty, that awkward stage where acne breaks out all over your face and your body starts to change seemingly overnight? Well, I do. I remember feeling like my head was bigger than my body, my nose was too large for my face, and to top it off I was tall and skinny with big feet. When you're going through puberty, it seems like you go to bed one night and don't recognize the person standing in the mirror looking back at you the next morning. Michael Jackson was no different than any of us yet we ...

Thank God I’m Natural – “Your Natural Hair Bible”

You may have heard about Thank God I’m Natural: The Ultimate Guide to Caring for and Maintaining Natural Hair, the book Essence Magazine calls “Your Natural Hair Bible” and that has gotten the internet buzzing.   Thank God I’m Natural is without a doubt the most comprehensive resource on natural hair and has something for everyone whether you’re thinking about transitioning, already natural, or sporting locks. The book covers everything from the dangers of relaxers to product reviews, and even has over 50 homemade recipes for making your own hair care products at home.  Best-selling author and Harvard graduate was kind ...

Understanding Medications by Kameron Leigh Matthews, MD, Esq.

As a doctor, many of my patients have shared that they are uncomfortable with taking medications.  Some think that the medication does not work; some are unable to afford the medication; others do not like taking more than one medication at a time.  It is often difficult to stay on a medication if you do not recognize the true benefit that it is providing. That is why the initial conversation with your doctor when you start the medication is crucial.    However, if you are started on a medication, it is very important that you talk with your doctor in detail ...

Yoga: Power Workout or Pagan Worship?

I am not a fan of yoga.  And it is less because it offends my Christian beliefs with its pagan god worshipping history, than the fact that it offends my body with its limb bending demands.  When I did my two tours of P90x, yoga is the only DVD I skipped.  When I am doing Downward Dog though, am I worshipping a pagan god, or am I just stretching my hamstrings and lower back?  When I raise my hands together in Warrior Pose am I filling my lungs with rejuvenating oxygen, or am I giving praise to a false idol? Some yoga ...

Rhonda Green Wants to Win a Dress!

  SHALENA D.I.V.A. "The Purpose-Driven D.I.V.A." Presents "100 DRESSES" Let's Bring Classy Back!   My name is Rhonda Green. When I was younger I broke my shoulder/arm so it makes me look like I have VERY wide shoulders.  I think it would be nice for you to pick out a dress for me that would slim my shoulders and look dainty. Please VOTE for me by pressing the star rating at the bottom of this post! Every vote counts so please vote for me. I REALLY want to win a dress.       Rhonda has a chance to win a dress like this:  Would YOU like to win a dress like this, too? What you've seen is ...

The PNP Agency owned by Parisnicole Payton

Parisnicole Payton is a native of Southwest Philadelphia, Pennsylvania who graduated from West Catholic Girls High School. She is a publicist/manager in the sports and entertainment industry who represents “A-List” clients. We interviewed Parisnicole for this edition highlighting successful women entrepreneurs and here are her responses about life and her successful company The PNP Agency. Please list a quote or motto you live by and state why.  “Always stay ready; so you never have to get ready.” This motto speaks very clearly on always being ready to accept want to the world has to offer. If not, you will get lost. Describe ...

Shootie Girl owned by LaShaun Martin

LaShaun Martin is southern born, but Cali grown.  She was born in Dallas, TX, but raised in Monterey County, CA.  She holds a Bachelor of Science degree in Business Management. Prior to deciding to stay home with her girls, she worked for the California Department of Corrections and General Services for 15 years.  She then spent 7 years with Hewlett Packard as a Global Event Services Manager, exclusively from home. We interviewed LaShaun for this edition of women entrepreneurs and here are her answers on life and her business Shootie Girl! Please list a quote or motto you live by and state why. I ...

Full Figured and Fabulous: Shape Wear

FULL FIGURED AND FABULOUS The Fabulous World of Shape Wear Greetings from Full Figured & Fabulous! This week’s topic is all about shape wear! Every woman, big or small should have at least one piece of shape wear in their closet.  Nothing works better to smooth and improve the most tedious areas—back, tummy, hips, thighs, butt—that sometimes even workouts won’t fix. I’m going to run through some essential shape wear pieces to help improve and smooth your problem areas. My absolute favorite line of shape wear is the Ardyss body re-shapers. Their products are durable, well made and affordable. In my book, ...

HAIRDRENALIN Owned By Valerie Stevenson

Valerie Stevenson was born in Columbus, Ohio and grew up in Upstate, New York. She went to school in a rural community that lacked diversity and an understanding for non-traditional families. She was one of three children in a single mother, African American home. She was told by her Guidance Counselor in high school that she was not “college material” and that she should reconsider going to University. Specifically, the Counselor told her, “Valerie, realistically you won’t succeed in college. You have no father to help you and your mother will be too busy working. Maybe you should become a ...

Nena Wants to Win a Dress!

SHALENA D.I.V.A. "The Purpose-Driven D.I.V.A." Presents "100 DRESSES" Let's Bring Classy Back!   My name is Nena and I'm 32 years old with 2 children. I have also been raising my niece for the last year and a half. I think that I should win the dress because with my income I can't just go out and buy one of these beautiful dresses. For a long time I thought I was just too big to dress as cute as the smaller women, but I realize size is not a factor. We can all not just look good, but feel good together as women--the beautiful beings that we ...

Successful Woman: Chrystal S. Martin, Esq.

 Chrystal S. Martin is an attorney at the  Saunders Law Group. She is the 10th Judicial Circuit Representative of the Florida State Bar Board of Governors' Young Lawyer’s Division. She is the first black woman to ever hold this post. She attended Duke University for her undergraduate studies where she majored in Economics. She also attended the Florida State College of Law to obtain her law degree and the University of Oxford for a Summer Abroad Program. She did not struggle with academics; however, she did feel overwhelmed at times. She took many courses that involved the financial aspect of Economics, which was quite challenging, ...

Positive Sisters: Sheila Fortson and Shay Walker

SHEILA FORTSON Sheila Fortson’s favorite rule to break growing up as a West Philly kid was the “bedtime rule.” She was to be sleep at 8PM, but as late as midnight, you’d find her with the volume turned low on the TV, defying her loving parents, watching cooking shows, shopping channels, and nightly news replays from earlier in the day. She knew from a very young age that being a host and reporter was a dream she wanted to fulfill, and she did everything in the vein of a faux radio or TV program. She’d give the play by play ...

WHO YOU CALLING A… by ShalenaD.I.V.A

Last Saturday morning was a hot mess. I found myself arguing with a woman. I was going back and forth with her when she struck a nerve and called me an ignorant bitch. "Did she just call me an ignorant bitch," I asked myself in disbelief. All bets were off at that point. Normally, I don’t argue with people. I keep my composure and brush things off, but this woman was totally out of pocket and I went there on her. I was already on edge because I was running late to an affair I had to get to that ...

Paying Early Pays Off by ShalenaD.I.V.A

As an InRoads college intern, I once heard a workshop facilitator say that if you’re on time for an interview you’re actually late. I could understand how arriving 15 minutes early for an interview was beneficial because it allowed me time to freshen up in the bathroom and to mentally prepare for the interview. I also understood how arriving after your interview was set to begin was not a good idea, but I didn’t understand how being on time still equated to being late. Over the years, I’ve come to understand what the workshop facilitator meant. Doing things early has ...

Keeping it Real Greeting Cards owned by Tanya Perry

Tanya Perry grew up on the south side of Chicago, her neighborhood was called West Pullman, her family moved there when she was in 4th grade. She would walk to West Pullman Elementary School everyday and the bullies would chase her home! After graduating from West Pullman is attended Percy L. Julian High School (go Jaguars!!) she loved her school and would say all the teachers (especially the black ones) were mentors because she could see what she could achieve if she worked hard. We interviewed Tanya for this edition of women entrepreneurs on www.shalenadiva.com and here are her responses on ...

JoAnn Wants to Win a Dress!

SHALENA D.I.V.A. "The Purpose-Driven D.I.V.A." Presents "100 DRESSES" Let's Bring Classy Back!    My Name is JoAnn and I feel that I deserve a dress becauseI feel like I lost myself  in the midst of raising 2 children,  being married for 18+ years and being divorced for 5. I gave up me for the sake of hanging in there for my family. Only up until 3 years ago I felt average.  Now God has Blessed me  with a BEAUTIFUL BLACK BROTHER THROUGH & THROUGH who brings out my inner beauty as well as outer. So if this moves you I look Great in any color now. Lol For ...

Child Support 101 by Theresa Brunson, Esq.

Philadelphia Domestic Relations Court (aka 34 S. 11th Street) can be a frustrating waste of time for some or an empowering opportunity to obtain justice for others. YOUR particular experience depends on your level of preparation BEFORE you get there.  Obtaining court-ordered child support is not difficult, but you need to know what you are getting into when you get tired of reasoning with the other party and showing him/her that life is much simpler without having to spend your days in DR Court. Nevertheless, when disagreements and stone walling arise…head straight to 34 S. 11th street. Please note…You should try ...

Spice for the Running Soul by Melinda Patton

Running bores me.  I want to be a runner; one of those people who rise just before daylight, lace up my sneakers in the darkness while everyone else is still sleeping, hit the road as the sun nears the horizon, early enough that I can nod to newspaper deliverer, early enough I may catch a glimpse of a deer heading back into the woods after feasting on vibrant green lawns in the moonlight.  I want to be that runner.  But I’m not. I’m bored after running a block, my mind already cursing how much further I have to go, my ...

Without a Hand, a Life will be Lost by Safiya D. Elliotte

I always ask myself what will our young people do without support and guidance. It saddens me when I see innocent children playing outside past eight o’clock with no parental guidance, hearing of another child being a victim of something like rape or child abuse, or one of our youth committing a crime that will totally destroy their character and life forever. When I compare my upbringing to that of today’s youth, I realize times are much different. There are more single mothers than ever before, families are more dependent on public assistance, city schools and community groups have lack ...

Marks Psychiatry owned By Dr. Tracey Marks

Dr. Tracey Marks is a psychiatrist and psychotherapist in Atlanta,GA with a special interest in how the mind and body connect to shape our quality of life. She has worked with numerous women struggling to balance their life and work, while also overcoming burnout, depression and other stress-related issues. She also has an online presence where the focus is helping busy moms be their best through effective lifestyle choices that improve their personal and professional lives. She doesn’t have a mentor, but does have a business coach to helps her make some wise decisions. We interviewed Dr. Marks for this ...

After the Love is Gone by J. Williams

My relationship is over. Although we haven’t officially sat down and discussed the details of how we’ll take care of our children and what our separation will look like, I know it’s over. For the past couple of months I’ve noticed the change in her behavior; how she barely looks at or speaks to me. We’ve stopped being intimate for more than six months so I’ve become used to sleeping on my side of the bed while she sleeps on her side, never coming into contact during the night. It’s funny how I used to take those nights for granted ...

When You Lose Your Rock By Irene Stallings

It was the beginning of January 1995; the start of a new year for most, but an ending for me. I was 2 months pregnant with my son. I had a loving husband, supportive family, and was living good. Everything seemed great.  I worked night shift and was on my way home the morning my world took a drastic change.  Looking back, I remember how gloomy the weatherwas. The sky was dark and overcast as if it was sad. I was going to stop by my mother's house, but for some reason (God), I got in the turning lane and just kept driving to my house. ...

Hilcia Wants to Win a Dress!

SHALENA D.I.V.A. "The Purpose-Driven D.I.V.A." Presents "100 DRESSES" Let's Bring Classy Back!   My name is Hilcia Henderson. I deserve to win a dress because I am THE dress lady. I wear dresses practically every day and they make life much easier since I don't have to worry about coordinating a top & bottom. It would be awesome to add a fly free one to my collection!!! Who knows... Maybe I can even wear it to the wedding I'm attending next month in the Dominican Republic (hint hint) :) Please choose me!!!! Please VOTE for me by pressing the star rating at the bottom of this post! Every vote counts so ...

Full Figured and Fabulous

FULL FIGURED AND FABULOUS The Denim Diaries Greetings from Full Figured & Fabulous! This week’s topic is….drum roll please….DENIM! Some full figured women hate the idea of wearing jeans and others just can seem to find the right fit. Well, I ‘m here to share a few secrets of my own. I LOVE Denim…but finding the right fit can be a journey within itself.  Another demon is finding jeans at an affordable price. LAWD knows, I’m frugal and I absolutely would kill for a deep discount! I can help you with that also; there’s no reason to break that bank to look ...

J French owned by Jasmin French

Jasmin French is a Midwestern girl through and through! She was born and raised outside of Kansas City, MO and after ten years settled with her parents and her brother in Indianapolis, IN.  Indiana proved to be a great place to grow up and it gave her some great experiences – from competing in pageants all over the state to a summer studying in France through Indiana University. She graduated from Duke University with a degree in Public Policy and French (Go Blue Devils!) and saw first-hand the many doors a Duke degree can open. Whether it was a photo-documentary ...

I LOVE BREAD by Melinda Patton

Last week was communion Sunday at church. I considered going to all three services just to get some guilt free bread and cracker carbs.  For 6 months I have been carb cycling. Four days of the week I seriously limit my carbohydrate intake.  And by seriously, I mean my carbs those days come primarily from vegetables. On hard weight lifting days I add complex carbs to my diet. What does this mean? It means I haven’t had but a handful of slices of bread since October. And these past few weeks I have had serious carb cravings!  At church I may ...

Stay Ready by ShalenaD.I.V.A

I caught the tail end of the Monique Show on BET a few months ago just before the credits rolled. In her loud, boisterous voice she yelled, “And if you don’t remember nothing else from this show today, remember this: “STAY READY ‘CAUSE IF YOU STAY READY YOU WON’T HAVE TO GET READY!” I pondered her words for a while and asked God to reveal its meaning for my life. When I woke up the next day, I recalled the Bible story of the five virgin bridesmaids who were waiting for the groom to arrive. In short, these women all had ...

Mi’Oni Swimwear owned by Marcia Carson-Broaster

Marcia Carson-Broaster grew up in North Philadelphia where she graduated from Simon Gratz High School with a two-year scholarship for Community College of Philadelphia. She pursued a degree in the medical field as an emergency medical tech (EMT) and later as a certified nurse assistant (CNA).  She thanks God for her mother who is her mentor and my spiritual guide. We interviewed Marcia for this edition of the successful women business owners and here are responses on life and Mi’Oni Swimwear, her new, exciting swimwear collection. Please list a quote or motto you live by and state why. The motto I live ...