To Remarry or not to Remarry
May 23, 2011 by ShalenaD.I.V.A
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Dear Shalena D.I.V.A., I am a middle aged woman who has been married once, got divorced, but have never remarried. My ex-husband is originally from Ghana and we met over thirty years ago in college. I quickly fell in love with him because he was kind, respectable, and genuinely cared for me. Our marriage was going [...]
An Emotional Affair or What…
May 17, 2011 by ShalenaD.I.V.A
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Dear Shalena D.I.V.A., I am a 55 year young woman whose body started changing at age 49. By 51, my sex drive went down and now I have none. I thought my husband of over ten years was very understanding, but now he constantly asks me when are we going to make love again. I [...]
Ring of Hope
May 9, 2011 by ShalenaD.I.V.A
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Dear Shalena D.I.V.A., In September of 2008 I met the greatest man that I could ever meet in my life. Karlton is loving, caring, giving and a great role model for my son. And the man is fine as I don’t know what! He is 6 feet tall with dark chocolate skin, a buff body, a bald [...]
Will He ever stop Grieving?
August 30, 2010 by ShalenaD.I.V.A
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Hello ShalenaD.I.V.A, I recently got involved with a man whose wife committed suicide two years ago. He has his good days along with the bad days, but all in all he’s still grieving. He was awakened the other morning by a horrible dream in which he relived the funeral scenario all over again. This caused [...]
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April 29, 2010 by ShalenaD.I.V.A
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My young D.I.V.A’s, always feel free to ask me whatever questions you’d like. If I don’t know the answer, I will find an answer for you! Never feel like you have no one to talk to about your problems. Post your questions in the comment section and I will get back to you. Mu-wah! Be blessed! [...]