Posts Tagged ‘ask shalena d.i.v.a.’

To Remarry or not to Remarry

Dear Shalena D.I.V.A., I am a middle aged woman who has been married once, got divorced, but have never remarried. My ex-husband is originally from Ghana and we met over thirty years ago in college. I quickly fell in love with him because he was kind, respectable, and genuinely cared for me. Our marriage was going…

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An Emotional Affair or What…

Dear Shalena D.I.V.A., I am a 55 year young woman whose body started changing at age 49. By 51, my sex drive went down and now I have none. I thought my husband of over ten years was very understanding, but now he constantly asks me when are we going to make love again. I…

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Ring of Hope

Dear Shalena D.I.V.A., In September of 2008 I met the greatest man that I could ever meet in my life. Karlton is loving, caring, giving and a great role model for my son. And the man is fine as I don’t know what! He is 6 feet tall with dark chocolate skin, a buff body, a bald…

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